Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Why Men Love Bitches'





My best friend Nanya introduced this book to me during one of our chit chat. And boy! What a revelation this proved to be!!! Oh first of all, “bitch” has a totally different meaning, than what we assume. It means Babe in Total Control Of Herself.
I really like how Argov defines the term Bitch:
Bitch (noun)- A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion--be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards- only her own. Because of this she relates to man very differently.
And from what I’ve heard, I  do agree that men like it when women are the “hot chase”. Once the lady gives in, men don’t seem to be interested anymore. So yeah, in a way maybe men are really like hunters – they love chasing things.

There are about 27 principles jotted in here telling women how to rise from being a doormat to a dream girl. Instances where a woman places her dignity, self-respect, and space above a relationship; not competing with other women, not to feel threatened by another women – she might not have what you have; not giving in to “sex”; show that it makes her more desirable.

The author supports all her points with relatable illustrations/real stories to make the reader understand her view. It is not really about do’s and don’ts –it s about the reality that women sometimes do not accept and live in denial. Most of the women do know the points already. It’s just that they don’t apply it the right way.

Most importantly, women should open to communication. Don’t be timid or assertive and keep shut thinking that you might offend the man. Be bold and take a stand. But not arrogant. Men really don’t understand things unless it is spelled out for them. Women are more known for their communication skills. So it’s better to say it out loud rather than keep mulling over it and getting frustrated.

It’s true- men love “bitches” who are upfront, honest, brutal, intelligent and totally independent. It prompts women to stop obsessing about men. It teaches her to be smart, independent and self-satisfied. Whatever you wish to be (a “bitch” or a “nice girl”), don’t lose your sense of humor and respect yourself for others to respect you. Be yourself. Make sure you don’t change for another person to like you. If you do wish to change certain traits or points about yourself – make sure those are valid.
But here’s a thought: women should not keep a man chasing her for long. He might end up losing his interest totally. Men are nurtured to be the rule-makers, not followers. So I think it goes both ways. If women hate waiting for that one phone call, so does the man. It drives him nuts equally, if not more. There should be a balance maintained, respect should be given to both, else this world would end up being full of just single people.
This book aims to make you understand things as they exist in real life. I don’t think women should follow it by rote to make a relationship “happen” or “work”. That would be treachery. But for the "hopelessly in love" kinds - do read it. It will make more sense than your preachy friend. 
And oh!!! I have this book in epub format and will be giving it out to you my Phavourites!!! Drop your e-mail add in the comment section if you want a copy.

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21 comments:

  1. Oh, niiice! Thanks for this.I'm getting me this book to read asap!

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    1. Most women don’t know this... but even if a man is attracted to you or even says he loves you...

      ...chances are he still feels something is missing.

      Because there is a secret, emotional need hidden within his heart that he craves more than anything.

      And in most cases, is not being met.

      The problem is, if it’s not being met, his attention will inevitably wander until he finds a woman who can give it to him.

      Maybe one in a thousand women knows how to do this instinctively, and they usually rise to unbelievable levels of influence and fame.

      But most women, or men for that matter, don’t even know it exists.

      On the other hand, when you have this 1 simple secret...

      You won’t believe the shocking effect you have on the men in your life.

      Here’s a video I discovered that shows you exactly what I’m talking about:

      ==> Here’s what I’m talking about: <=========> He’ll give his heart to the first woman who does THIS...

      Best,
      Ana

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  2. Hiya favour.. How are you?! Please can you read this post.. Its worth it I promise.. But I want to know the general opinion on it.. Please Phavour.. Please I beg you...

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  3. This is one of the best books ever and I'm not surprised at all that Sherry's book sold like hot cake. When I read it, I realised that in the past I had been doing all the wrong things. Have you read the sequel titled, 'why men marry bitches? You are missing a lot if you haven't already

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    1. dats the one i'm reading now... got it from a friend few days back

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  4. This book opened my eyes to the real mind of men. Seriously I thought I had knowledge about guys until I read this. And for real, it has improved my self esteem as a girl. I just want to get the "why men marry bitches". For real, a book is just the wisdom of an author but as a reader, one must use her own wisdom too. Just a clearer picture about men and I recommend it

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    1. i'm currently reading why men marry bitches... you could get a free download on epub.com

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  5. Hi! Can I ask you for an epub copy of this book? It will be a great great help. Thank you! :)

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