“The day I go catch u eh!!! I go make sure say I give you belle so that you go marry me by force” said Mr X to me on one of our many conversations after I declined his offer to come spend the weekend at his place. Now, let me tell you about Mr X, we both had a crush on each other and I never knew his name until two years later when someone sneaked behind me on my way back from church.
Mr X: hello Osas, good evening
Me : errrrmmmm….. good evening… you know my name? wow!!!
Then we had the whole where have you been? What’s been happening with you convo and we exchanged contacts and that’s how we started talking on phone everyday. Then he started asking me out and I said no. I love crushes because I have this image in my head about them but when a crush asks me out you kinda ruin it all for me. Plus I discovered my crush drinks a lot and can’t seem to keep his hand to himself especially on our dates hence my refusal to go visiting.
Mr X wants to marry me ( so he said) but I refused to take the first step towards the big step. So??? He wants me to come visiting and force his way in( that’s rape rite? And it’s a crime shey? And because I’m spending the weekend with you,it will then seem consensual abi?) and pray I do get pregnant and then he will demand that I keep the baby. He hasn’t called me in months and the reason I did remember this incident was because I was on skype yesterday night and one of my overseas chykers said a similar thing. “ if you come my house, I go give you belle” I just said goodnight and ended the call.
In the past, I’ve heard of women using pregnancy to trap men into unwanted marriages. I can’t believe the tables are turning.
Remedy: tie my legs like mermaid and take no nonsense. I love my life and my career and I wouldn’t want to ruin it with the wrong spouse.
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