This is no random thought.
Boys are very clueless, ok, some dudes are very clueless. No wonder they always complain of friend zone. How can you assume you are dating a girl you never asked out officially? Just because you guys are pretty close and laugh and talk often, then that’s a gradual progression to a relationship?I’m always like “did I miss the memo”? shuuu…. See me see gbege o… I can’t even begin to list the number of times I’ve had this encounter.
Sometime ago, I asked my friend o that we should define the friendship cos apparently I started getting the impression that he has started seeing me as bae and the next thing this bobo said was “ na chyking you da find”? my head did bigm, bigm… nwokem, gini mere??? Ah!!! In the spirit of humour I replied “ before nko”. Its different when some people complain about friend zone but all these other random people in your life that just happen to chat with you often of are presumably close to you and assume something else eh… brothers… its not fair o…
I’m old enough to know what I want in a relationship and if I want to pitch my tent with you whether permanent site things or not… shebi I will decide the location? As I complain about this ish, my roommate Anwuli talked about her experience same with Chioma, and Queen.
So, this is an official memo to all bro’s in the house o… if u like a sisi eh… just do the needful and ask her out o… don’t assume if not your heart will break too by assumption.
I prefer it the old fashion way. You like me enough to ask me out? Do so. Two things are involved its either a yes or no.
So who else have been in a relationship without her/his knowledge???
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