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Sometime ago I witnessed a
dude proposed to his boo of life and his background music was M.I's "one
naira" I suddenly found myself humming " wetin be one maira? E better
be one million.. Baby, you got me.. With that kind of money. #hahahah # WTH???
Who ever gave you the
impression that I will soak garri with you? What insult!!! I've upgraded to
french fries and early morning tea in bed.
My friend has spent eons
building relationships and watching it crash within months no matter how hard
she tries to sail the wrecking ship. Now she gets goose bumps and panic attack
whenever a guy mentions intimacy. Maybe its the fear of rejection, failure or another
wasted time/resources/emotions. This brings to the mind big question INTIMACY.
Intimacy is a four syllable
word for, "Here's my heart and soul, please grind them into burger, and
enjoy." It's both desired, and feared. Difficult to live with, and impossible
to live without. Intimacy also comes attached to the three R's... relatives,
romance, and roommates. There are some things you can't escape. And other
things you just don't want to know.
I wish there were a rulebook
for intimacy. Some kind of guide to tell you when you've crossed the line. It
would be nice if you could see it coming, and I don't know how you fit it on a
map. You take it where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can. And as
for rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something you
have to define for yourself.
This is just my one cent
opinion. I would like to read yours.
Nosakhare favour osayuwamen
You have got to define the rules and its like the lottery - you cant win if ou dont buy a ticket. U got me
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uhmmmm...lottery
DeleteI was tinkin of the same thing before I opened ur wonderful blog. Sometimes u have to take the risk to find out if ur love story is going to turn out sweet or bitter.if u dnt how would u know nd u could miss out on something special but we females need to thread with caution,it's not so easy to give ur heart to someone tho. Prayer is still the key to a successful relationship
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