Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Change is here.

Something big happened in history today and this is a milestone for my country. Congratulations to the president elect SAI BUHARI.  And like a dear friend said

# babanowthatyouarethere .
1) Don't come-up with 36-point agenda.Just give us Light and security. Others will fall in place.

2) Reduce the costs for data bundles.

3) Make Fashola a minister with 2 portfolios. He can handle it.

4) Baba, the number of fish in each tin of Titus sardine used to be 8 in 1999. Please do something about it.

Sunday, March 29, 2015

What l've learned from my Autistic brothers

Now I'd like to introduce you to my brothers. Remi is 22, tall and very handsome. He's speechless, but he communicates joy in a way that some of the best orators cannot. Remi knows what love is. He shares it unconditionally and he shares it regardless. He's not greedy. He doesn't see skin color. He doesn't care about religious differences, and get this: He has never told a lie. When he sings songs from our childhood, attempting words that not even I could remember, he reminds me of one thing: how little we know about the mind, and how wonderful the unknown must be.

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Favourmoyseblog Giveaway 3

hello lovelies!!!  hope you went to fulfill your civic responsibility. This week i'm giving out free Chimamanda Adichie's novel. ln our first and second giveaway post it was James Patterson and John Grisham. The books are in epub files, which means in order to be able to read them you should have an epub reader. You can download that from the google playstore or bb world.
Below is a list of the books i'm giving out.

Friday, March 27, 2015


Emmm... my dad sha called me few days ago  and asked that l stay indoors during the election since i wasn't travelling home to avoid stories that touch. When i told hin i don't even have a PVC which is my ticket to vote he heaved a sigh of relief. He's foreseening violence already and according to him people were being paid #5000 to sell their votes and others #10,000 to destroy the PVC and i was like WTH???

Eat that Frog

 A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. Never leave that till tomorrow, he said, which you can do today. This is the man who discovered electricity. You think more people would listen to what he had to say. I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo?

Thursday, March 26, 2015

The biggest lesson l learnt from my mom.

My mum is my biggest cheerleader, there’s nothing she believes I cannot accomplish. She encourages me to reach out for my dreams: “it is possible”; she insists and always goes to the word of God for back up.  She is extremely hard working and every day I wonder where she gets her drive from… and she’s oh so determined!

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

I got Ghosted

When everythings seemingly going great with a guy and then he totally drops off the radar? Yeah, that.A couple of months ago I met a guy on instagram. He was good looking, smart and seemed to have his shit together. Anyway, after a few days talking, we met up for ice cream and I was relieved to find he was better looking in person and was also very tall thank God. I hate it when you meet up with a guy and they have the height of M.I Then he asked me out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. It was the best date Id been on in ages - great food, great flanter, lots of laughing and no criminal records.

Monday, March 23, 2015

8 useful tips to note when employing househelps

1. Use a reliable agent or  agency
Agents or agencies should be able to guarantee each house help that they provide. Usually when a serious incident occurs some agents feign ignorance. There have even been cases of agents conniving with house helps to rob or steal from their employers. A proper agent or agency will usually ensure that both clients and employees are vetted.

Sunday, March 22, 2015

How long does it take you to get over a breakup? find out here.

for those of you that don't know your zodiac sign , below is a brief summary and some of their characteristics

Aries - March 21 - April 19 Active, Demanding, Determined, Effective, Ambitious

Saturday, March 21, 2015


Dear Mr. President,
Come take a walk with me.
Let's pretend we're just two people and
You're not better than me.
I'd like to ask you some questions if we can speak honestly.

l'm not that woman; an ode to every woman

Set your own standards and determine your own value. It doesn’t matter what everyone else does – it matters what you do. If everyone else has done it and it’s not exactly worked out for them, why repeat their relationship insanity? It’s not about what other people are comfortable doing – it’s about what you’re comfortable doing and a lot of women spend their time doing stuff they’re uncomfortable with because they’re afraid that if they don’t, they’ll ‘lose’. You’re losing anyway.

Thursday, March 19, 2015

How to reduce food waste

Avoiding food waste is one of the best practices that should be incorporated in our everyday lives. i doubt if anyone enjoys seeing their hard earned money thrown in the trash can when it could have been put to better use elsewhere. Food wastage is avoidable and can be curbed in so many ways. Here are a few ideas to get you started
1. Buy exactly what you need
It's always wise to take note of what you need and what you don't need at the moment. Before going to shop for groceries, always have a written down list of things you'd be needing at that moment and things you wouldn't be needing. Take inventory of things you already have by checking your refrigerator, food shelves or cupboards and by writing it down on a sheet of paper. Also, ask yourself how you can work things you already have available into a meal.

2. Reuse Or Re-purpose leftovers
When anything i.e food remains unused or unconsumed especially after the first day, it's termed a leftover. We all know that after the first day, most people tend to shun leftovers as they might not have the same taste and freshness as when it was first prepared. To avoid this, you could store it in the freezer for reuse later. In this case, plastic storage containers that you could label /date is very necessary. If you want to store and re-use excess soup, you could skip adding the vegetables at the final stage before transferring into a container and storing in the freezer. The Vegetables could be added when you are ready to use it.

You could also re-purpose the meal by making them re-appear in another dish. For example;
Left Over stew or sauce: You could either convert it to (1) Curried stew by adding fresh curry leaves (2) Vegetable stew by adding Pumpkin/green leaves (3) yam porridge or vegetable yam by using it as a base (4) porridge beans by using the stew as a base. The addition of the new ingredients tends to mask whatever taste the dish probably had before thereby giving it a new look and taste.
Left Over soup i.e pepper soup: This could be used as a base for the preparation of the Listed meals above and even more

Unused vegetables and fruits: You could preserve vegetables and fruits you're not ready to use by applying any of the popular preservation techniques such as; pickling/ canning, drying e.t.c

3. Donate Leftovers
You could donate food you will not eat to agencies or charity organisations that would get it across to people struggling to feed themselves. Probably you have excess food from an event, donating it to people in need would really go a long way.

4. Recycle Leftovers
For home use, this would come in handy if you have a garden. Just start a compost pile in your back yard and convert spoilt or unused food into useful resource. If you don't have a garden, there are lots of farmers who'd happily accept food scraps for feeding goats, pigs etc

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Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Favourmoyseblog Giveaway 2

hey lovelies!!! during our first giveaway we did give out James Patterson ebooks.
Today I'm  giving out John Grisham books and its all free.  Yes, free and in pdf format. 
so you know how we roll na.just drop your email in the comment section and you will get it asap
The summons
The painted house
The chamber
The client
Skipping christmas
King of torts
The rainmaker
The runaway jury
The street lawyer.....

these are a few of the ones in my collection... lets go

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Monday, March 16, 2015

Funny attitude of Nigerians @ weddings

My friend got married last  saturday and I was priviledge to be the maid of honour. I've always had an eye for detail and trust me if most people had an idea what I know about them just by cyber stalking!!! Choi!!! They would cringe.
I got warned by the bride not to wear heels that would make me taller than her or the groom and this gave me headache for days.# I sha sorted it out#
Ah!!! People are wicked. Just three days I spent making preparations with my friend opened my eyes to a new dimension of this thing called "wedding"

Sunday, March 15, 2015

6 Fashion tips for women over 50

Fifty is the new forty considering that women of today take more care of themselves and do not age as quickly as they did some decades ago.
There are two types of women over fiftythose who dress at Forever 21 and those who have been wearing their favorite dresses for the past twenty years. Both are mistaken. 
Ageing gracefully is awesome,

Friday, March 13, 2015

# Learn one skill

This is a sponsored submission from 360talkatives blog.


I laugh nonstop. I laugh and I laugh. I laugh because we are so misguided. I laugh because we just don't seem to get what the real world is. Listen to me:

You feel you have secured all the rights in the world just because you succeeded in gaining admission into the university in just a single sitting? Therefore every other person has to adjust his life to suit you? Therefore the world should come to a stand-still and mechanically change how everything works because of you?

Monday, March 9, 2015


If you've not seen scandal you are sure missing a lot. Everyone needs to have a feel of Olivia Pope. And for those who has seen the movie, here are 6 quotes from the movie you shouldn't forget.

1.No one elected you! Youre not the president! You dont weigh in on foreign policy! Your opinion doesnt matter! You are the first lady. Your job is to plant gardens and decorate rooms and let them blog about your clothes. Youre ornamental, not functional. So, dont come into the oval and try to use your brain because no one cares. President Fitzgerald Grant

Sunday, March 8, 2015

What Feminism means to me.

As a kid I knew nothing about feminism. I knew that men were more powerful than women because it was what I had observed, but I had never heard of feminism. Fortunately or maybe unfortunately, I attended a mixed school. But as my hunger for knowledge grew i learnt about the word feminism and might have even considered myself a mini feminist.
But the more I learned about feminism, the more confused I became.

Saturday, March 7, 2015

Favourmoyseblog Giveaway 1

Hello lovelies?how's the weekend going? So i will be giving out free e books this week or maybe every other week but for today i will start with James Patterson.if you want any of his books just drop your e-mail and i will send it to you asap.

please note that the novels are epub files so you will need an epub reader to access the files. you can download on google playstore or bb world.

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Friday, March 6, 2015


By Arc. Duru Chimezie

This is a sponsored submission from 360talkatives blog.

If you were told that you are just as small or big as your phone, what would be your reaction? Well, that's what BANTER WITHOUT DOORS is all about this week. Duru Chimezie says, a bigger phonebook is a bigger you. Find out how.

A greater percentage of people own phones now more than it was so during the early 90’s and 80’s. Back then, telephoning was a treasured gold and about the size of an entire neighborhood where usually subscribed to a single NITEL telephone owned by an obvious Good Samaritan. Now don’t ask me what happens when a resident gets a call on the Good Samaritan’s telephone. Almost usually, a crowd a tad less than two football teams, would likely come rushing through one door, to see and hear while the said owner of the call, picks and speaks into the receiver. Pure Shakespearean drama!

We have come several miles from there, haven’t we? We are now hugely civilized people (pun intended) and have come to think mobile phones to be mere toys (another pun intended) for grown-up babies. Boys and girls, alike. We have come to think mobile phones to be an equivalent to our wrist watches, belts or even earrings for the ladies. It is something we seem not to do without but yet persuade the world to think that we are certainly big enough to do without it. In fact, big enough to get as many of it as we wish, at any given time. How that is meant to make the world shudder at our seeming riches and glory, beats me silly. After all, it is only a mobile phone, and would likely remain that way.

The irony of the mobile phone isn’t the mobile phone. The irony of the mobile phone is the phonebook on the mobile phone. We are happy to make the world believe that we are much greater and more important than the mobile phone but yet it is the same mobile phone that actually does tell the world if you are really bigger than a phone or not. It is the same mobile phone that does tell us everybody’s true worth; no matter the level of theatrics we introduce into our effort to convince the world otherwise. You are actually, no bigger than your phonebook suggests. Not at all! The key to how much respect we are bound (now take note of this one), to afford you hangs unto the neck of your phonebook like some hangman’s rope!

So what exactly is the phonebook’s business with defining one’s profile?! It’s simple. The content of the phonebook. I might want to introduce a ‘new’ saying that would likely go this way : “show me your phonebook and I will tell you who you are”. Now sorry for having to do some plagiarism from the old original ‘show me your friend’ saying. It was really vital I did mine to support my claims here. Nonetheless, I can pip myself and say that I do think you have a clearer understanding of where I am going. For all the likely boasting and ‘mouth-making’ (I can’t help but think of someone weaving a mouth with wool when I hear this word) we can actually get from someone, I am only likely going to shiver if I knew the content of your phonebook was fiercely more destructive than mine. And in all sense.

Now, come to compare two phonebooks where in one case, the first contact or so saved on Phonebook ‘A’ is actually ‘Account Balance’ while on ‘B’ it is ‘Acting Deputy Controller’. They are both ‘A’ ain’t they? But of course, all ‘As’ are not equal. Now that is our first fact! If the owner of phonebook B were to say everything about how he was going to crush me into powder and likely do some little David by spraying me (a non-goliath though) into the air and hoping for some flying birds to chew me, of course I would humbly accept the threat and retreat into my shell. Reason being that he has an A-contact who isn’t ‘Account balance’ by name but rather ‘Acting Deputy Controller’. But if the same threat were to come from the A-guy, goodness knows that I would begin executing the said threat on him before he was ever finished with his statements. It is that simple.

A phonebook of very great names (more pun) like (and with no disrespect), ‘Fatima-Okirika’, ‘Sam Carpenter’, ‘Bola Film shop’, ‘Sola-fish’, ‘Sola Coldstore’, ‘David tiles’, ‘Chukwuka Yam man’, ‘Perculiar Weaveon’, ‘Sandra Saloon’, ‘Mike-Barber boy’, ‘Tosin Tailor’ and ‘Hamza Fowl seller’ will and can never be compared with one with mean names like, ‘Brigadier Sani’, ‘CEO Dolphin Motors’, ‘Professor James’, ‘Engr. Martins’, ‘Dr. Saliu’, ‘MD. Fin Insurance’, ‘Gen. Micheal’ and ‘Bar. Collins’. Reason being that the later easily describes the owner as someone of such high standings when compared to the other. Of course, nobody is asking anybody not to save contacts of carpenters and mechanics if they were going to make their living any better; not really. All I am saying is that, before anyone begins to shout into our ears about who he is, what he is capable of doing and how all the governors and senators were his brothers and friends, can he/she first of all go through his phonebook? For that is actually were everybody’s true value lies. The higher the profile of people on your phonebook, the higher your stock. I drop my pen here!

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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Who you are - A message to all Women.

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Monday, March 2, 2015

Lets talk dirty

 A few months  ago, oddly enough, I needed the bathroom, and I found one, a public bathroom, and I went into the stall, and I prepared to do what I'd done most of my life: use the toilet, flush the toilet, forget about the toilet. And for some reason that day, instead, I asked myself a question, and it was, where does this stuff go? And with that question, I found myself plunged into the world of sanitation --  sanitation, toilets and poop, and I have yet to emerge. And that's because it's such an enraging, yet engaging place to be.

Contact Check!

  I remembered l have a blog today again. Not like today is the first day this has crossed my mind, but l decided to visit this site today a...