Now, married guys are not my
thing. Nor are guys who are attached (in a relationship), engaged, or in love
with someone else (even if they are not attached). I’m
all about monogamy; guys who are involved with someone, be it
legally, physically, or emotionally
would automatically be out of my consideration set. Not only would being with
such guys be against my moral code, the fact that a guy can hit on me while
being with another automatically eliminates him as someone I’d
ever be interested in, because I’m looking for someone
with strong values of honesty.Being hit on by married men got me thinking about
marriages. While I have never thought about getting married (I think about life
in a sequential fashion, and I don’t
see the
point of thinking about
marriage when I’m not even with someone I love yet), I do think that
marriage is an important milestone for many people.
But sometimes women can be
really extreme same goes with men. Here are five tips for the married man.
1. Keep your ring on. There
are very few exceptions for when that ring needs to be off, like when operating
heavy machinery, swimming in shark-infested waters and the like. If you are
about to enter a situation
that makes you look at your ring and consider if you need it on or not, leave!
Run! Get away from there! Seriously, get out of that situation; your vows,
marriage,
children and more depend on
those important decisions.
2. Hang up pictures of your
wife at work. A married man in this position would be wise to pick out a couple
of great and fun photos of him and his wife and keep them displayed at his
office or place of work. Pick
a time that was fun for two reasons: It will remind you why you love her so
much, and it will make for a great conversation tool when others, especially women,
ask about it. Update the image as needed to keep the people around you knowing
your relationship is continuing to grow. Get that picture up this week and
extinguish those flames.
3. Keep eye contact simple
and short. Don’t read this the wrong way; I’m
not saying to be rude. I’m saying to be careful where your eyes travel and how
long they travel when you are in the presence of an attractive single woman.
You know that once you engage in the first serious look, you have signed the dotted
line for more eye trouble. Keep it short, keep it decisive, and move on. Get back
to that image posted at your desk. Go!
4. Keep conversation general
and professional.
If you work around single
women, there is no question that conversation will come up. It’s
up to you on how you decide to speak with her. You can choose to keep it short
and general, you can
choose to keep it
professional, or you can choose to keep it off of those and allow it go places
it shouldn't. Be polite but very intentional in your conversations. If needed,
again, always be ready to bring up something about your wife or family. Pull
the pin, aim, and extinguish. Safety first.
5. Talk about your wife and
family often. Did I mention anything about talking about your wife in
conversation yet? I believe I did, but this last point brings the idea to a
firm home.
The single women you engage
with each day, if you have to, should be no match to your wife and family. Your
family should be your first priority wherever you are and with whomever you encounter
each day. Yes, each and every day.
Keep it short, keep it
simple, and mention your beautiful wife. Now pat yourself on the back and keep
it up.
Important note: No matter
what you have done with your current relationships with single women, these
steps can and should be started at anytime. Your wife’s
feelings are and will
always be more important than
the woman you need to take these steps with. Get on it!
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